Comments for The New New Plan http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com A Chronicle of My Fresh Start Fri, 18 Dec 2009 17:41:38 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Oops. by thesoniashow http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/17/oops/#comment-2015 thesoniashow Fri, 18 Dec 2009 17:41:38 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3900#comment-2015 I can't wait to find out how coffee went. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you! I can’t wait to find out how coffee went. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you!

]]> Comment on Oops. by Lola http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/17/oops/#comment-2014 Lola Fri, 18 Dec 2009 06:53:48 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3900#comment-2014 well, and uh...what about the possibility that his wife thinks they're back together? maybe that's why he hasn't had time to date anyone else this month. girly, you're crazy and i love you ;) well, and uh…what about the possibility that his wife thinks they’re back together? maybe that’s why he hasn’t had time to date anyone else this month. girly, you’re crazy and i love you ;)

]]> Comment on Heartbroken (LP) — Update by Mere http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/16/heartbroken-lp-update/#comment-2013 Mere Wed, 16 Dec 2009 22:48:11 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3888#comment-2013 Ah...the internet! It makes info so available. Even info you don't really want! My advice, and hell, I do not even take my own advice, is to wait on sending the email. Ah…the internet! It makes info so available. Even info you don’t really want! My advice, and hell, I do not even take my own advice, is to wait on sending the email.

]]> Comment on My Ugly Truth by Heartbroken (LP) « The New New Plan http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/11/21/my-ugly-truth/#comment-2012 Heartbroken (LP) « The New New Plan Wed, 16 Dec 2009 07:14:59 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3845#comment-2012 [...] truly crazy about him and his disappearance was so abrupt.  We went from “My Love” to cancelled plans to [...] [...] truly crazy about him and his disappearance was so abrupt.  We went from “My Love” to cancelled plans to [...]

]]> Comment on “My Love” by Heartbroken (LP) « The New New Plan http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/11/16/my-love/#comment-2011 Heartbroken (LP) « The New New Plan Wed, 16 Dec 2009 07:14:56 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3813#comment-2011 [...] this better, but I am truly crazy about him and his disappearance was so abrupt.  We went from “My Love” to cancelled plans to [...] [...] this better, but I am truly crazy about him and his disappearance was so abrupt.  We went from “My Love” to cancelled plans to [...]

]]> Comment on Cigarette Smoke by The Planner http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/cigarette-smoke/#comment-2010 The Planner Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:07:26 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3872#comment-2010 In his defense, BFD did not understand the severity of the trauma until later and he was really wonderful throughout, imploring me to be with him rather than be with my friends. I spoke to him at length and he was very present and available to me. Had I wanted him, he would have been there, but I just wanted to numb the pain, not discuss it. Essentially, I was in a situation where my life was in the hands of someone psychologically unhinged, who was a stranger to me. Everything is fine, but I had a period of time when I thought I was going to die and/or witness something truly horrible. It is an assault, even though I was not physically injured, and I will be dealing with this for some time. In his defense, BFD did not understand the severity of the trauma until later and he was really wonderful throughout, imploring me to be with him rather than be with my friends. I spoke to him at length and he was very present and available to me. Had I wanted him, he would have been there, but I just wanted to numb the pain, not discuss it.

Essentially, I was in a situation where my life was in the hands of someone psychologically unhinged, who was a stranger to me. Everything is fine, but I had a period of time when I thought I was going to die and/or witness something truly horrible.

It is an assault, even though I was not physically injured, and I will be dealing with this for some time.

]]> Comment on Cigarette Smoke by thesoniashow http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/cigarette-smoke/#comment-2009 thesoniashow Wed, 09 Dec 2009 17:29:00 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3872#comment-2009 I am sending positive vibes your way. I hope you are OK! I am sending positive vibes your way. I hope you are OK!

]]> Comment on Cigarette Smoke by Kate http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/cigarette-smoke/#comment-2008 Kate Wed, 09 Dec 2009 17:04:01 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3872#comment-2008 Oh man. Not sure what happened, but I hope you've called the police! Agree with Mere, BFD should have come to you, like you did for him not long ago. Oh man. Not sure what happened, but I hope you’ve called the police! Agree with Mere, BFD should have come to you, like you did for him not long ago.

]]> Comment on Cigarette Smoke by Mere http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/cigarette-smoke/#comment-2007 Mere Wed, 09 Dec 2009 16:16:07 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3872#comment-2007 Dear god, woman! I hope you are ok! BFD's response is....ugh. You drop everything when he has an "issue" but he cannot be bothered to offer anything other than sex when you have one? Jackass. There is something very, very wrong with him. Dear god, woman! I hope you are ok! BFD’s response is….ugh. You drop everything when he has an “issue” but he cannot be bothered to offer anything other than sex when you have one? Jackass. There is something very, very wrong with him.

]]> Comment on Cigarette Smoke by madmargaret http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/2009/12/09/cigarette-smoke/#comment-2006 madmargaret Wed, 09 Dec 2009 12:39:39 +0000 http://thenewnewplan.wordpress.com/?p=3872#comment-2006 Have no idea what happened, but glad you're okay. Experiences like that can really put things in perspective! Have no idea what happened, but glad you’re okay. Experiences like that can really put things in perspective!

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