It’s getting hard to write lately because I am incredibly busy and when I am not incredibly busy, I am spending slightly less time staring at my navel.

I am just as ego-centric, I am becoming less reflective.  This is not a positive development.

I am still sorta dating BFD, but I was traveling and then he had house guests and now he is traveling, and we don’t have much time for each other.  I have stopped missing him when we’re apart.  That’s not a good sign for our future relationship.  We’re still on hold for another couple of weeks, but I am on the cusp of closing my business deal with him, so things are about to shift again.

We were on tv, together, for a philanthropy thing.  He was speaking, I was in the background in other shots.  He looked and sounded great.  I looked great, too.  (No ed triggers being on television, which shocked me.)  Since it went live and the inevitable clips hit facebook, I have been fielding the “is that your [BFD]?”  I overcame my initial hesitation and said yes, though I felt weird at first claiming him.  Then I remembered, fuck him, in my world, he is my boyfriend — though we’re on a break — and my lover — though I hate that word, and yeah, that is my BFD.

Part of my problem with BFD currently is that his bullshit is his bullshit and I am tolerating less and less of it.  I saw him twice last week — once for our workout and then a group dinner with friends and JF’s girlfriend — and for our workout on Saturday.  I spoke with him every day, including yesterday as he was leaving for a trip.  Saturday, he drove me back, kissed me, and called me a cute pet name.  Still, he regularly pisses me off and my tolerance is low.

We have another couple of weeks before he is back settled in town.  I have no idea how I will feel or where I will be when that happens.

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